Lifting In Arms Factor:
Well, lifting wife in arms by her beloved husband and then taking her from place to some other in home, public place, hotel etc is very entertaining and making people happy too much. Housewives feel happy when they see in serials husband lifts his spouse in the event she walks bare feet to a temple to fulfill her wish (for husband's prosperity and good health) to a mythical God and hurts her foot.
Women keep expecting a similar thing from their husbands and imagine that may be 1 day their husbands would lift them inside their arms and bring them from a dining room to bedroom or from vegetable market to home just walking and individuals are wondering and wondering and saying inside "The reason? Is this magic? Oh, she is unquestionably very lucky." But in reality many husbands in India seem quite reluctant to lift their wives for any reason especially after marriage. Exceptions may be there in certain rare cases. When husbands (before marriage) were lovers they have to have lifted their lovers but after they are in a responsibility role they get tired, bored and for some reason don't feel happy to accomplish such things for the obvious reasons. Women complain too for their husbands when they watch serial actors (characters) lifting actresses inside their arms. Please have an in depth consider the following conversation between a partner and wife (both middle aged) while watching lifting in arms scene in TV serial:-
The husband is busy taking care of his laptop and simultaneously watching TV serial with his wife to make her happy. He's least thinking about television serials but sometimes he agrees to fulfill his wife's wish. It is 8pm. Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai Watch Online Husband is sitting beside his wife just to be controlled by her in the event she passes any comment about any character's behavior etc. The wife went totally into her favorite serial. A couple of minutes later, all of a sudden, she starts clapping her hands; the husband is startled, he looks at her with wonder and then moves his eyes to the tv screen screen. He asks his wife with a little curiosity "What happened dear?" The wife is busy in watching the scene. She doesn't hear him. He asks her again "I never saw you so happy. You clapped your hands. I can see that there isn't any cricket match going on as of this time. Can you please tell me what made you clapped suddenly?" Now the wife looks at her husband with some anger inside and says "You won't trust in me if I tell you." She mutes the channel since the commercial break comes and keeps the remote in her hand. Husband "Of course, I will believe you."
Wife "Didn't you watch the way Geeta's husband lifted her in his arms and took her to the temple? Actually she hurt her foot. And now it's bleeding. So he lifted. So sweet!!! So romantic!!! But what Personally i think honey; she shouldn't have gone bare feet to the temple. What do you consider?"
The husband listens to his wife attentively and then asks a concern casually "Who is Geeta, dear?"
"Oh, I'm referring to this character. You know she is my favorite. You appear to almost forget all my personal favorite actors."
"Oh, just how can I forget that? Only this Geeta I didn't know."
"I wish my husband takes me to the temple exactly like that. She is really lucky to own that strong man. I'm feeling so happy you know. Maybe you have taken me like this even once? See simply how much her husband loves her. That's the best way to express love. You've never expressed your love like Gaeta's husband. You know, he says I love one to her almost every day. And just look at yourself."
"Ha Ha!! You know Gaeta's husband is not her real husband so he is able to say 'I love you' to her on an everyday basis." He requires a pause and then continues "That's only a serial my dear. It's a fiction. Those activities aren't real. And just look at you and your weight. Just how can I lift you when you are so heavy?"
"I understand, you would say that. You never care. That's why I watch this serial. They show how other husbands behave with their wives and there is you should not remind me of my weight again and again. I'm trying my best. I stopped eating sweets now."
"Yes, I understand for six days you follow those ideas and on the seventh day you relish." He starts laughing loudly.
"You can never understand my feelings. You're so rude and cool." She turns off the TV angrily and goes in one other room. The husband quietly sits down on the sofa with his laptop with a smile on his face.
From the above conversation it's possible to conclude how men and women from middle class families talk and discuss characters of daily soaps, how the conversation starts with and ends with, how fiction can impact people's life indirectly, how women interpret fictional things and conclude about something righteously. Some fictional things can certainly raise women's expectations from their husbands.
Lifting in arms factor could possibly be quite a heavy one for family men but when tried hard, could be necessary for family and an inspiration for children.
If most men than women watch lifting in arms scene on TV attentively and when it persuades them to act than simply to watch, the happiness in women's life would undoubtedly be doubled. And if women become happy by their husband's expressing love differently, many homes in India would certainly be flooded with great happiness.
Replacement factors:
Indian common masses are very emotional. They get attached with serial characters rapidly and get accustomed to see the characters in daily soaps that they see on TV for a long time. They get shocked when any major character is replaced like a main character or supporting actress or actor, mother in law, father in law, brother in law etc who play major roles in daily soaps. Sometimes it happens that even with replacement when viewers watch that serial, they keep remembering the old character at heart and believe that she or he's still acting. This happens with many people. Humans take time for any change to accept in general when a preexisting character is replaced with a new one. They make time to accept the newest one. Somehow all these things aren't considered by directors and producers who launch them before launching their family dramas on regional TV channels. Replacement of any favorite character upsets the viewers when they get accustomed to that specific character. Read this following assumptive example: A few gets married with the blessings of elders and starts staying together in a home. Only two of these and 2 years have passed. Husband and wife have quite got used to each others' presence. They shop, eat, drink, fight, share feelings and have a great time together. One day in the morning, the wife just leaves the home without informing her husband. When the husband returns back home from office, he finds another woman who claims to be his wife, tells him to forget the first one and convinces him that he won't have chance to meet up the first one. What will happen in this instance? Natural reaction such situation could be entering shock, sadness, insecurity, depression and confusion. Any sudden change could be pleasant or unpleasant or both. Although some men want to have such surprises some amount of time in their life but used to factor and emotions will be between. This is what exactly happens with viewers when replacement of a common actors is completed all of a sudden by a group of TV serials that could be avoided if taken necessary steps for the sake of viewers because of whom they have the ability to show whatever content they would like to in order to entertain them.
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